Something I should have been, but foolishly hadn’t mentally prepared myself for as a parent, is that responsibility also comes with a certain degree of fear, anxiety, worry, frustration and ultimately: trust. Teaching the kids the responsibility of picking up their socks, putting away their dishes, and turning off the lights may not yield these terrifying thoughts and feelings (and I may not always lead by the greatest example), but when it comes to things like watching for traffic, not getting into stranger’s cars and anything else that requires independence is truly a terrifying concept to to embrace. As much as I can’t wait for my kids to be more independent, it’s more challenging on my cardiovascular system than I was anticipating!
Genuine question for my own Mom and Dad – does that feeling ever go away and does it ever get easier?
That said, as Alison and I have been discussing this whole ‘fish’ situation, we’ve been observing and reflecting upon our kids this Spring vs. last and are amazed at just how much had changed in a relatively short period of time. To be clear on this: there are still socks on every surface, just about every light in the house is on right now, and there are dishes growing things in corners that I frankly would prefer to not know about, so we have a long ways to go on that front, but when I think about how the kids at one time not so long ago couldn’t tie their own laces, there have been some drastic evolutions in their abilities. They ride their bikes with confidence, they know how to unlock and navigate just about any device you put in front of them, and they have a pretty good bearing on directions. All things considered, their capacity for more has increased exponentially since last year, and this has opened up our willingness (and desire) as parents to allow them to stretch even further.
*MagiQuest –
- a fun and creative interactive scavenger hunt that takes you on an adventure up and down three flights of stairs in search of runes, pictures and interactive characters while surrounded by hundreds of sugared-up kids running around waving wands in the air and not watching where they are going.
- it genuinely is fun, though albeit exhausting. There’s a level of patience one gains the moment you step into Great Wolf Lodge. It’s a place for kids and I get to become one myself.
- another $180 out of your pocket to purchase two magic wands, two special wand toppers and two game registration/activations, which must be played within a certain amount of time or you need to pay another $20 per wand
Responsibility can be fun daunting, challenging, inconvenient and boring; but it can also yield some truly fun results. We need responsible spending habits now so that we can afford to go to Disney later. We need to keep heading into work so that we can continue to afford going to escape rooms (we’re hoping soon to go to the Firefighter Rescue Mission at Escape the 6, located in Mississauga at 3600A Laird Road, which you can book conveniently though this link: click here…not that I’m trying to drop extremely subtle hints for anyone in particular, like my talented and beautiful wife, who may or may not read this…)
So with all this in mind, while we’re not ready to bring home a dog or a cat necessarily, I am certainly leaning closer and closer to filling up that fish tank and giving it a go with a fish or two. And now that my oldest daughter, who has become quite the little reader, has read this over my shoulder, I feel we may be even closer than I’d been thinking…
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